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For all the marbles, here is your
final question:
What is Truth or Consequences?
a. A small town in New Mexico
b. An old TV game show
c. A fact many practice managers
just can’t face
d. All of the above
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If you guessed “d,”
congratulations you are our new champion! In fact, the
answer is all of the above. In 1950, Ralph Edwards
hosted the wildly popular radio game show Truth or
Consequences, and he announced on the air that he
would air his program from the first city in America
that renamed itself after his show. Hot Springs – a
small spa city in New Mexico actually took him up on
his offer, and renamed itself Truth or Consequences.
Additionally, after 17 years (1940-1957) the radio
program evolved into several different TV shows, the
most popular incarnation hosted by Bob Barker from
1956-1975. Of most interest to us though is the fact
that truth and/or consequences is indeed a fact many
practice managers and eye care professionals in
ownership, leadership, and supervisory roles simply
cannot face. Allow me to explain.
As an adjunct instructor for
Rockhurst University and National Seminars Group, I
frequently teach a 2-day seminar entitled Leadership
Skills for Managers and Supervisors. It is a very
popular class (for information when this seminar is
coming to your town, call 800-258-7246) that is
attended by managers and business owners from all
walks of life. Early during the first day, I ask the
attendees to share with the rest of the class their
challenges – areas of frustration and concern in
their supervisory roles. As you can imagine, the
challenges are numerous and varied. Some complain
about a lack of resources, dealing with difficult
people, managing a bullying or clueless boss, time
management, delegation, finding good people, getting
employees to embrace change, and on and on…Often
though I’ll start to hear very specific challenges;
for example, employees who:
Make too many personal phone calls
Conduct personal business on the
phone
Send text messages during business
hours
Are guilty of email or Internet
misuse
Treat patients or co-workers rudely
Do not follow the practice dress
code
Arrive late for work
Perform their job duties below
acceptable standards
Call in sick – even though all
their sick time has been used. And on and on…
Those specific challenges could all
fall under the headings of “Substandard Work
Performance” or “Inappropriate Behavior.”
Sometimes when these challenges are verbalized, if I’m
feeling a little frisky or sarcastic, I’ll ask the
attendee, “Why do you think that happens? Why are
they late all the time?” Some of the answers that
are offered include: She’s a single mother, traffic
jams, personal problems, had to get the kids ready for
school, illness, or she knows that her co-workers are
there to cover for her. Those are all possible
explanations for the tardiness (or for any of the
other transgressions listed above) on any given day,
but I didn’t ask for an explanation. I asked why.
A 2008 Harris survey revealed
employees call in sick for the following reasons:
| Illness
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35%
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Family Issues
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24%
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Personal Reasons
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18%
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| Stress
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12%
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| Felt Entitled
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11%
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This study shows that nearly
two-thirds of all absences are for reasons other than
illness! A manager needs to be sensitive to the stress
of mere day-to-day survival in the challenging,
complex world in which we live. Managers who truly are
sensitive to those needs, and are able to communicate
that sensitivity by their day-to-day actions will have
less absenteeism to deal with.
Additionally and anecdotally, I
believe 90% of your employees will respond positively
to your caring concern, and when appropriate,
counseling and coaching. Behaviors will change and
life will go on. But with some people (the other 10%)
the TRUTH of the matter is that the only thing they
understand is real CONSEQUENCE. In fact, I also
believe that many managers are blind to another
truism: The people who are in most need of change will
not change until they feel uncomfortable. May I humbly
suggest that the reason why those people whose
behavior is in most need of change never change is
simply because nothing bad ever happens to them! There
is no real (say it together) consequence for not
changing.
By the way, writing them up…again,
setting up a meeting with you, them and the doctor…again,
talking to them, asking them to change, idle threats,
cajoling, ignoring, looking the other way, holding a
meeting with the entire staff to discuss expectations,
rewarding other employees, etc….all of those things
may or may not be appropriate actions. But guess what?
They all lack any real…consequence!
Once during a conference, one of
the attendees raised her hand to ask a question. “Anthony…I
got this one employee…the doctor said I can’t ever
fire her…and I done wrote her up twenty-three times…what
can I do?” Her frustration was palpable. When she
said that she had written her up twenty-three times, I
thought she said that in the same way I might say, “I
wrote her up a million times.” So I asked her, how
many times have you actually written her up. Her
response was astounding. “I done told you Mr.
Anthony – twenty-three times!” You see, the young
lady asking the question could not fathom that her
employee had not responded to twenty-three write-ups.
Why? Because the woman at my seminar was a normal,
decent, kind human being who would have responded to
the first write up. I was left with the daunting task
of answering her question by saying there is nothing
she can do. Her “Problem Child” is simply waiting
for twenty-four. Her real problem is not with her
employee, it is with the owner/doctor who has decreed
he will never fire the offensive employee. He is
trying to hold his practice manager accountable for
not being able to change the employee’s behavior,
yet he has not given the manager any real authority to
accomplish it. Because I’ve got news for you: That
employee knows the doctor will never fire her. The
only effective tool: consequence.
Which begs the question: Why does
that doctor refuse to fire the offensive employee?
There could be dozens of specific reasons. Let’s
examine a few.
She has a family. The economy is so
bad. Really? If that employee cared as much about her
family as apparently the doctor does, and actually
valued her job, perhaps she would respond to the real
consequence of potentially losing her job.
Trying to be a “nice guy.”
Really? Why not think about being a “nice guy” for
all your other employees who strive to do a good job
and have a positive influence on your practice.
She may sue me if I fire her.
Possible? Yes. Likely? No. And if you document your
conversations, and keep good records you have nothing
to fear on this front.
It’s so hard to find employees
these days. When did being vertical and having a heart
beat become the only requirements to keep a job?
I don’t like confrontation. I
wouldn’t want to fire her myself. Nobody likes
confrontation…grow a backbone. Better yet, learn how
to handle conflict, appropriately counsel, and if
necessary, how to legally and professionally terminate
an employee.
No question about it…sadly…sometimes…the
truth is: all we have is consequences.